What is the best hair care regimen for me?

I have curly and wavy hair, but not extremely curly, more wavy. I have short hair that I spike with GOT2B glued hair gel, everyday. I usually wash my hair everyday but I think I am going to start washing every other because my hair is getting really dry. I am going to change my hair style though, so I no longer have to gel it. So what shampoo and conditioner should I use? I like to have a 2 in 1 in the shower as well so if you could suggest one that would be great. Are there any treatments (hot oil) or masques that work really well?