Gayest question I will ever ask you guys.?

Gayest question I will ever ask you guys. Ok, so I have like spanish people white people and black people hair mixed together. lol i know, but the top of my hair is like very thin and soft and like idk DOPE ! aha but the back is like always frizzy even with water and gel and everything it just is frizzy what should i do any tips? im a boy lol weird i know i just want my hair to be even though ..